Counselling FAQs

Starting counselling can feel like a big step, and it is natural to have questions before you begin. To help you feel more at ease, I have gathered answers to some of the most common queries about my practice and about counselling in general. Whether you would like to know more about how I work, what to expect from your first session, or how therapy can support you with specific challenges, this page is here to provide clarity and reassurance.

Frequently Asked Questions about Counselling

What is integrative counselling?

Integrative counselling is a flexible form of therapy that combines different approaches, such as CBT, psychodynamic and humanistic counselling. It is tailored to meet each person’s needs rather than following a single method.

How long does counselling usually take to work?

This varies from person to person. Some people notice changes after a few sessions, while others benefit from longer-term support. Progress depends on your goals, the issues being explored and your readiness for change.

Is counselling confidential?

Yes, counselling is confidential. What you share will not be discussed with others, except in rare cases where there is a risk of harm to yourself or others. This will always be explained by your therapist.

What types of issues can counselling help with?

Counselling can help with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, stress, grief, low self-esteem, trauma, domestic abuse and relationship challenges. It provides a safe place to talk, heal and grow.

How can counselling support children and young people?

Counselling gives children and young people a safe space to talk about their feelings and experiences. It can help them build confidence, manage emotions and develop skills to cope with challenges at school, at home or with peers.

Can therapy help with relationship problems?

Yes, therapy can be very helpful for relationship difficulties. Counselling can improve communication, increase self-awareness and provide tools for managing conflict and building healthier connections.

What types of issues can counselling help with?

Counselling can help with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, stress, grief, low self-esteem, trauma, domestic abuse and relationship challenges. It provides a safe place to talk, heal and grow.

What is the difference between counselling and psychotherapy?

Counselling often focuses on specific issues and current challenges, while psychotherapy usually explores deeper patterns and long-term difficulties. Both aim to support self-awareness, emotional wellbeing and personal growth.

How can counselling help with anxiety and depression?

Counselling provides a safe space to talk about difficult feelings, explore their root causes and develop coping strategies. For anxiety and depression, therapy can help reduce symptoms, improve emotional regulation and build resilience.

How do I know if counselling is right for me?

Counselling may be right for you if you are struggling with emotions, relationships or life challenges and want a supportive, confidential space to talk. Many people find counselling helpful when they feel stuck, overwhelmed or in need of change.

What should I expect from my first counselling session?

In your first session, you will usually discuss why you are seeking help and what you hope to achieve. The counsellor will explain how they work and give you the chance to ask questions, so you feel comfortable moving forward.

What is the role of a counsellor?

A counsellor’s role is to listen without judgement, help you explore your experiences and support you in finding new ways of understanding and coping. They do not give direct advice but work alongside you to facilitate change.

What happens if I do not feel comfortable with my therapist?

The relationship with your therapist is important. If you do not feel comfortable, it is best to discuss this openly. If it still does not feel right, you are free to seek another therapist who may be a better fit.

How many therapy sessions will I need?

The number of sessions varies from person to person. Some clients benefit from short-term support, while others find ongoing counselling more helpful.

How long does each therapy session last?

Sessions typically last 50 minutes. They are usually held weekly at a regular time, but this can be adjusted depending on your needs and availability.

If you’re considering counselling, please know this – you do not have to face your challenges alone. Together, we can work towards understanding, healing and hope.